Dont worry - be happy

A patna of mind is not doing well. A lot of issues to deal with, and a sure string of bad luck. I tell them that if they cut that rope, and start with a new one, they will be alright. Now everything takes time. Its not like when we were kids and our parents, teachers or especially grandparents could solve our problems that same minute or day. Now, we deal with it on our on, and have to deal with the consequences that could cost us our closes friends and family, money and our place of living. The problem is that most people are afraid of the consequences, or they feel that if they get rid of the problem now, they wont have nothing to worry about. You would think by now this solution does not work in most cases that involve big decisions. My homie always tell me that i am or still is in the same situation. I say yes, I have been there, and going through it somewhat. However, I wont let it stop me. The problem is this person is now looking over a bridge, if you know what i mean. I am always listening to people, I will give a honest a opinion and not just give the advice you want to hear, but when I get this kind of call I am almost speechless. Besides an interview or meeting a fine ass lady, this is the only time where I am worried about what I say. i don't want to be the last person this kat has talked to...

hours later...

Aight, the person is calm and I feel a little better, but I am always worried when this person has a problem. People always say to me, its not that easy, or I am not like you. I can not explain how I do it, or why I stay calm. Just listen to what I say if you have a problem or you want to know what I am doing with my issues. I try to explain, but it seems my opinion or advice falls on deaf ears. Its not hard to deal with issues at all. Sometimes you might have to worry about consequences later.

Another thing that gets to me is when a person has all these problems (and like i said, worse luck then my last few years), and will not try to fix it. Some of these problems I know could be easy. Step one to fixing problems is to solve them - sounds easy dont it. Well you or someone you know has not got that memo. I tell most people to start with one, either the one they feel is the most relevant. This means either fix the one you feel is the biggest, most stressful, or the smallest that can be corrected real quick. Better yet, start with the ones that will kick the financial part. If that means getting an extra job or getting a new one, it must be done. Stress I feel is the number one natural silent killer in most americans. Yeah, the diseases and other conditions could eventual cause your death, but if you are stressing about that and other issues, it will put a strain on your body that people dont seem to realize. Most people want to go to therapists, or doctors to solve physical and mental issue. Well for one, therapists are there to relieve stress by working out your problems with different and alternate. You can call me for that, I wont charge you money, Id rather have a cooked meal the way I like it. And most doctors give you medicine, theraflu and shit. now when its real bad, medicine is fine, but little sniffles and stomach cramps are cureable by being relaxed and drinking water. Seriously, flush all that sadness, madness and stuff your body dont like down the drain. AAAAAAND, if you eat the same regular foods like I do, body wont have to fight much new stuff. I eat the same shit all the time and avoid germs and sick people, thats probably why i dont fight colds all day (knock on wood)...

its dinner time, get at yall later. sorry to cut it short